Friday, 15 May 2015

The lives of our clothes - past, present and future


A Russell Flint*

I could not speak for amazement at your beauty
As you came, down the Garrick stair,
Grey-green eyes like the turbulent Atlantic
And floppy schoolgirl hair.

I could see you in a Sussex teashop,
Dressed in green peasant weave and brogues,
Turning over, as firelight shone on brassware,
Last year's tea-stained Vogues.

- Sir John Betjeman


PAST

As an overly romantic teenager for whom adulthood could not come quick enough, somewhere between my Bloomsbury Group obsession and Mitford sister stage, I found time for a bit of a crush on John Betjeman (who was no watercolour but a superb wordsmith) and in particular, I fixated on his poem A Russell Flint. She was my heroine, this girl with the grey-green eyes and the schoolgirl hair. I imagined that one day, if I could get my hands on my great grandmothers sea-green woven tweed coat (and the charm bracelet and the ball gowns) , I too could sit in a teashop, being a bright young thing, flicking through tea-stained Vogue magazines and my life would be complete. I willed myself to grow up quickly alongside making complicated plans to run away from home - with the coat. At the age of 13 - I was the exact opposite of A Russell Flint muse.


You see, to me, the green coat was a very great thing.


The sea-green tweed coat which was made for my great grandmother,
then passed to my grandmother, my mother
and now me!


My great grandfather returned badly injured from the war to find that his mother had died, the family home had gone. The only person he knew was his mothers tailor. So under his tutorship, he learnt to make clothes, acquired a tweed mill or two and a wool factory in Edinburgh called Munrospun and proceed to design couture under his label called Country Life. There was a coat not dissimilar to this one which was kept in his office in his factory to remind himself to maintain the same standard of quality in every single garment which left the building.



The old Munrospun Factory in Edinburgh

PRESENT

During my recent house move I was forced to choose what I kept for my day to day living and what would be boxed up and put into storage. I brutally disposed of a lot of tat, most of my clothes came with me and ones which I wouldn't immediately wear were sent on a little holiday up the motorway.  I waved TTFN to a van of nearly all my worldly possessions which were then chauffeured up the A40 by two nice Polish gentlemen and deposited into a teeny tiny cupboard.

I thought everything was tucked up safe as mouses, but then I received a RODENT ALERT email so had to go and check for signs of life. Now I don't really mind the mice nibbling on my sofa or my caffetiere but I really do mind them tucking into my great grandmothers beautiful green coat and the ball gowns she bequeathed me! 

Off I went to rescue them! Stuck in traffic on my return journey with my precious cargo I felt terrible that I had ever considered it acceptable to put the green coat and gowns away. They had always been used to a much more glamorous life - hanging in lovely wardrobes around the world in a golden age when everything was...better? But as we know, the past is a foreign country and they do things differently there, however it is our responsibility to look after the items passed down through the generations and take them into modern times rather than (and more prevalently) keep churning out sweatshop tat and creating landfill. I have realised that beautifully made, quality clothes will always be in vogue and, if looked after properly, will never go out of fashion - they have a place in the modern wardrobe. As long as we win the war on moths! But what also appeals strongly to my (often crippling) sense of nostalgia is that these items are our heritage and always tell a story - the places, the parties, the people. When I wear the sea-green coat I know I am the fourth generation of my family to do so and I love that. We always say what if the walls could talk, but what if the clothes could?

The coat. 
Granny's first ball gown in silk Chrysanthemum Liberty print.
As a child I used to think it was horrid because it wasn't pink.
I love it now.
Once consigned to our childhood dressing up box. Now in my dressing up box.

FUTURE

On the way to a wedding at the end of last year, on route to my car I took a wrong turn and accidentally found myself in Portobello market! I felt a cosmic pull towards a green tartan tasselled coat and was delighted to find that it was made from an old Munrospun blanket - a genius way of up-cycling I thought! The ultimate in sustainable fashion! I wondered where it had been all this time and what journey it had taken in the time between. From leaving the factory in Edinburgh in the middle of the last century under the watchful eye of my grandfather and then finding it's way back to me. I feel so happy that I am able to look after it for the next bit.


The Munrospun label with the Lion Rampant of the Scottish Royal Standard.

Me, sadly not on the Garrick stair but actually in the ladies at the Savile Club in my Munrospun tartan blanket coat.

...and so to tie up this musing...

The said wedding I went to was in Sussex! The day afterwards, I found myself in a teashop, wearing my green Munrospun blanket coat and reading the Sunday papers (still definitely not looking like a Russell Flint muse, due to the excesses of the night before) but I thought to myself.......finally..........in a round about way........all these years later.....mission accomplished. 


Heritage


*It gets even better at the end - I always strive to be as calm as a rock pool - not always succeeding. You can actually hear John Betjeman reading it in full to rather rousing music here. Swoon. 


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Tuesday, 17 February 2015

Fake Fur, Films And French 75s

I like staying up late. I like sleeping late. I like two-hour lunches with wine.*
- Joan Collins 

So this is the one you've all been waiting for...I know, I know, since October. The Premiere, the new release, the opening act, top of the bill, talk of the town (I don't think so), king of the hill, top of the heap etc. When one consciously uncouples with ones clothes, one has to consciously recouple you know! My mind was a blue screen. To casually quote Baudelaire 'Nothing can be done except little by little'... So it's been a work in progress, this epic, montage, storyboard, flash-framecinema-scope, whiplash of clothes, swirling about in my head for these past weeks. So, please excuse the proverbial spewing of thoughts on to the (digital) page but here goes: often off script, 
definitely off auto-cue

I'd like to thank the Academy..........of friends for the, often aggressiveoccasionally threatening, emails of encouragement, each one would leave me thinking You like me! You really like me! Sally Field style. I'd like to thank one friend in particular who said she wouldn't speak to me until I'd written my next instalment. 
(Happy now Kate?? Call me.)

Excuses out the way - OK so we've done January and some of February. Phew. But we still have some dark days ahead people. I am sure I've said this before but my friend says she prescribes herself fur and fake tan for these dreary winter months and I quite agree.  Except I am going to prescribe myself a tan and fake fur....oh and French 75s - but more on that later. I want to focus on fun February things not fitness things! I've thrown out the spirulina and the spiralizer, I have been intentionally careless with my gym kit. What follows are the contenders for the lovely things that have lifted my spirits during the colder months. I've cracked open the champagne, I'm opening the golden envelope.  I'm letting down the fourth wall. I'm ready for my close up Mr DeMille!

The nominations are:

Best New Arrivals

Fake Fur Coats
My main fashion joy in the past months has been fake, colourful fur, unreal fur, fashion fur or whatever you want to call it. It ticks all my boxes so I have been busy expanding my collection. Its warm, it doesn't hurt the little animals, it doesn't moult and (sometimes) it's cheaper. Obviously it all began with my Shrimps clutch (reminisce here) and then the obsession spiralized out of control. I'm 5 and counting. If you asked me if you could borrow my fake fur coat I genuinely, guiltily wouldn't know which one you were talking about.
I would also say no, FYI.


It's become a bit of an obsession. But the thing is doesn't matter what you wear underneath (I suggest pyjamas or nothing ooh la la - not really) they complete your outfit, make you feel like a movie star. They also cover up a multitude of sins and they make you wear colour in the winter. And people want to stroke you. Which is nice, depending who it is. So it's just all great really. There are lots of nice ones left in the dregs of the sales...so all that money you've saved on doing boring dry January, spend it on something that will bring you unremitting joy and warmth in these long chilly months.

Coat from Ainea

For those of you who follow me on Instagram, you will have seen my
Dulcie coat from Shrimps. It's my favourite, Kapow!

Coat from Story of Lola available at ASOS. Slightly bonkers.

Best Supporting Category:

French 75s
(nb. They absolutely will not support you if you drink more than 2)

I have also discovered French 75s! I was always aware of their existence but they've reared their rather beautiful French heads more recently. New Years Day was made A LOT easier with these wonders.  After seeing off  3 rather quickly though we were calling them Turkish 97s  and sluuuuring frankly my dear I don't give a damn! But everything and everyone starts to look rosy and attractive. Here is ze recipe from Simon Hopkinsons wonderful book (best person). SO easy! Best drink after a drought I say. Mix up a few of these darlings and drape yourself on the casting couch.


Best Trousers

Vintage. Tick! Moschino. Tick! Casino related. Tick!

Feather bra-let from Topshop. Vintage Moschino Casino Pants
from Lime Green Bow. Always, always bet on red. Shut up and deal.

Best Dresses

Notable costume performances have come from the following:

Malene Birger Silk Dress with jewelled pockets.

Vintage dress from Lime Green Bow. It's like a firework.
 It satisfies my inner magpie!

Lime Green Bow has a pop up shop at 201 Portobello Road right NOW!
Open for the next two weeks. Info here.

Best Score/Soundtrack

I Love You, Honeybear by Father John Misty. Splendid. Just splendid in every single way. 
Download it here.

An album about musician John Tillman's life, most songs are about him 'engaging in all sorts of regrettable behaviour.'
I like him already.

Best Item To Wear Even Though People Love To Comment On It In An Annoying Way:

Kate Moss for Topshop Silk Day Pyjamas
Cut to Christmas day 2014. INT. old house in the countryside - KITCHEN - DAYTIME - people shouting...My Kate Moss for Topshop Pyjamas. Worn on Christmas Day...you can imagine the jibes I got from the grown-ups. Going back to bed Grace? Forgot to get dressed Grace? etc etc. I pointed out that as long as I was wearing underwear it was all fine.


Best Shoes, Accessories and Headgear


Paul Andrew Velvet Fume Loafer from Avenue 32 sale.
The perfect smart shoe.

Charlotte Simone Popsicle. Love this. Although it should probably go in to the
Best Item To Wear Even Though People Love To Comment On It In An Annoying Way category.
 People like to tug on it and say 'What's this?'

Eugenia Kim Headband. Reminds me of Spring. Hurry up Spring!

And...THE WINNER IS my Victoria Grant wonder. Cocktail anyone? Don't mind if I do. This makes me happier than a seagull with a French 75....oh wait sorry a French fry.

Of all the gin joints in all the world....

Lifetime Achievement Award

You can read about when I first acquired this coat here. It can't be put in any other category - it stands alone. Slightly makes all the banging on about my other coats a bit defunct but hey! It's a star not a starlet. It's Oscar worthy. It's an old-hander. It's Meryl Streep, not Kiera Knightly. It's Robert De Nero, not Eddie Redmayne. It makes me feel like Marilyn when I look like Shrek. It's Gone With The Wind, not Fifty Shades of Grey. Its raindrops on roses. It's whiskers on kittens. It's the meet cute, it's when Harry met Sally, it's Casablanca! When I saw it for the first time I knew it was going to be the beginning of a beautiful friendship.




That's a wrap folks. Don't hold your breath for the sequel.

The End.

Fade out. Roll credits.

*This quote bears absolutely no relevance to the blog post apart from the fact that I like it. February Vibes. Joan Collins gets my vote.


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Monday, 13 October 2014

Concious Uncoupling...With My Clothes

"Breaking up is hard to do" 
- Neil Sedaka

How true. With the looming prospect of a possible flat move, I need to address the very real fact that I am potentially going to end up on Britain's Biggest Hoarders or worse, be found suffocated under a toppled pile of clothes (how embarrassing). There are other solutions but I feel it would be faintly ridiculous to get a storage unit elsewhere to house my attire.

After the initial forced break up with a large portion of my favourite clothes (read about it here) it was quite nice to have the choice this time about what I got rid of. I have sloooowly come to terms with the fact that they have gone and the philosopher in me says that everything happens for a reason. I mean, I got my first heavy breather* because of all those clothes that got nicked...you've got to look at the positives right?!

During the de-cluttering process it becomes apparent that there are once loved clothes that no longer work for me and need to go some place else...mostly eBay or the charity shop so they can live another life far from the confines of my wardrobe and the demands I once placed on them.

There are the oldies but goodies that you should keep. Like trusted friends.

Then there are those items that work for a season when you want to wear them everyday. I have often thought to myself 'THIS DRESS answers every single wardrobe problem and I'll never have to wonder what to wear again!' But one wear or wash too many and the love evaporates and you can't work out why.  Maybe I want different things. Maybe it's not me, it's the dress. Maybe the dress and I are at different points in our lives. Maybe I deserve better than the dress. Maybe the dress and I should just be friends. Maybe the dress needs to focus on it's career.  Or maybe it's because I'm just not that into the dress anymore. So it goes in the bin before it leads me any further up the garden path without showing me the vegetables.

Then there are the non-recyclables...not to be revisited. You keep clothes because they remind you of fun times but if you turned up to a party in them now, people would point and scream. Anything over washed, over worn or overworked should head for the garbage. It's like when you still have pairs of knickers with your name tape in from school. It just is time to bin them when you're knocking on the door of 30.

During Project Wardrobe I reminisce about the things which I let go of or carelessly lost and feel huge regret that I didn't make a bit more space for them or realise quite how wonderful they were. I often wonder what happened to those things that I loved so very much but in a moment of madness flung them in the charity shop bag.  I live in hope of coming across those clothes I dumped and being able to re-buy. I fear it is too late.

But then I am reminded of what Buddha said: 'In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you' - and so it is with my clothes. I am letting go of things that have bought me much happiness and making space for the new.

It's been fun going through the archives... and every time I hear the ch-ching of another dress sold on eBay I head straight over to grASOS to see what I can replace it with.

So for the nicer bits - well, they can be found on eBay and if you like any of the below and aren't too precious you can head over to the bins at the far end of Ladbroke Grove and have a good rifle through! 

This is what I am dealing with....
And this....
And this...
And this......
And this. This isn't even all of it. Argh!

THESE WERE A FEW OF MY FAVOURITE THINGS

This coat saw one rave too many and now looks like a dead cat. Heading for the bin.

This was once my favourite jumper. It literally just stopped working around November last year. Bin.

This dress breaks my heart - it holds so many memories. I wore it for my
21st, 22nd, 23rd, 24th birthdays. It's the only dress my father has ever tried to ban me
from wearing. As you can see it's entirely see through and I have slightly lost my guts.
I also left it in direct sunlight and it's been faded in strange patches so it looks like
I've spilt espresso (Martinis) all down it. Actually, hold on. 

This dress.....a Topshop classic. I wore it through some of the best
Summers of my life. I climbed the mountain Cader Idris in it.
Most inappropriate climbing gear ever.
Unfortunately I ironed all the 'lace' and it melted so it's heading for the bin.
.

I have worn this dress at our annual Piano Bar event every year for about 5 years.
It looks ok in the dark but close up it's in tatters and looking a bit trampy.

An old Betty Jackson dress that has seen too many TAKE THAT concerts. I rediscovered it recently but unfortunately it's not back for good. It's heading for the bin.
Loved this dress very, very much once. But for some reason I don't any more. I wore it to a Heavy Metal concert and it never really recovered. Nor did I for that matter.

My gilet. It's so tattered and torn. Bin. This was me when I had my last clear out in Portobello. I kept pretending to customers that things were on hold so I didn't have to part with them. Look how happy I am.

This skirt was an absolute favourite. Bought it in Greece.
But it too is shredded from too many washes and wears. Bye skirt.

Notte by Marchesa dress.
It's got snakey bits tailing along the
bottom that kept getting caught in car doors or trodden on.
I'll be sad to see this go.

My tinselly number. It was wonderful until after a night of quite rigorous
dancing the ribbon holding it in place  disintegrated - I had to hold it together with
safety pins. Which is not a good look unless you are Liz Hurley circa 1994.

*Truly! I posted in Lost and Found on Gumtree...moments later I was talking with a man who said he had seen my clothes in the back of someone's van and there was lots of  wimmins underweaaaaar and laydeeez stockings (definitely not mine) and was it mine? And had I worn it pant pant huff huff and had they been washed? Revolting!


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Tuesday, 9 September 2014

Selfie Scrapbook

'Selfie trend is getting a bit sinister'
-The Telegraph, March 2014

This outfit post has been evolving for a while. I had the dreaded Storage Full thing on my phone so went about deleting everything surplus to requirement from my handheld. I embarked on a journey through my photographs and initially I happened upon a variety of selfies (body not face - nothing worth hacking into my iCloud for) taken in the loos of St John - sounds a bit grotty but they just so happen to be the whitest, cleanest WCs in London and have the best mirror for a full body outfit shot. So this post started as 'St John Selfies' throughout the year. But I only found about four which maybe was not enough to keep anyone interested. Coming across another series of photographs taken in three different musical venues over the summer, therefore three different sets of clothes, I thought this post could be called something reeeally imaginative like 'Gigs - What I Wore'. The variety of artists being Paloma Faith at The Roundhouse, Jonathan Wilson at Village Underground and One Direction at Wembley. One evening of lipstick and saxophones followed by beards, harmonicas and patchouli, finishing off with screaming, sherbet and cherry chap-sticks but blog-post wise I still wasn't feeling enthused. And then I wore boring things to the Paloma gig so that plan was scuppered. 

It shortly afterwards became a post about my mini trip to the States. A bit of a 'Miami Vice' vibe but I wasn't very committed to the idea and sort of ended  up just wearing  a bikini and floaty things and taking a few snaps that I thought were good to go. That was until my friend and I lay on sun loungers next to supermodel Erin Wasson for an afternoon and I ended up deleting all my photographs and vowing to only eat broccoli and smoke cigarettes for the rest of my life. 

Then just before I decided that it would be a full on shameless selfie post I was pouring over the weekend papers and read that Kim Kardashian is bringing out a book called 'Selfish' entirely of her and her bottom. It also reported that obsessive selfie-taking is now a recognised mental disorder. Argh! Quick! Delete!  But then it seemed like such a waste. So before I consign most of these shots to the trash and free up some storage space - here are some of the clothes I have worn around the town, things I've tried on, things I've been given and things I can't wait to wear. There's no common theme except for the fact they're nearly all of me and lots have been taken in bathrooms around the world. A selfie-scrapbook if you will. I hope it doesn't make you feel the need to suggest I urgently require a stint in the Priory sans phone and mirrors. 

THINGS I'VE WORN

First St. John Selfie. You may have seen this one before.
Loos of LouLous
My favourite Cedric Charlier bag which is having a moment again
Close up of my dress from Lime Green Bow. 
Bathroom up The Shard. If you look carefully you'll see this is also a 'Belfie'.*
Close up of my Zimmerman Splatter Dress
Me wearing a sink and some tiles in Polpo
St John Selfie #2
We went to a Caribbean music night in Miami.
The pale pink bathrooms of Soho Beach House. Another favourite Zimmerman dress
which matched the interiors.
Boring outfit for Paloma.
St. John - last one. In my new favourite Zara dress which will see me
through these weird weather days.

THINGS I TRIED ON (and MAYBE bought)

I was nearly sold on this Kate Moss for Topshop dress until I saw LiLo
falling out of a club in it.
Obsessed with this Bonwitt Teller silk dress at Lime Green Bow. See it here.

Favourite handbag. Apart from the fact I can only fit some earphones in it. 
Another wonderful handmade thing found in the charity shop on Notting Hill
Gate. It looks like a night sky.

Kenneth Jay Lane Ring from eBay
Victor Costa pale pink origami dress. Also from Lime Green Bow.
I am in love with this dress.
More on it soon.
Chanello


GIFTS THAT WERE GIVEN (from people who clearly know me very well!)


Lucky me! A birthday gift. Viennese gem from a flea market. Emerald green is my
favourite colour. And my adored Amethyst ring from best friends.
Lucky me again! Favourite birthday gift. I had been dreaming about owning this. My dream came true!
The most beautiful gold Bluebell pendant by Catherine Zoraida. 
Christmas present from my sister...VIP ONE DIRECTION tickets at Wembley! Hurray!
Up there with one of the best nights of my life. Dress from Topshop. 
One Direction gave us a watch! With their signatures on the back. Yes!
I actually wear the watch...with my LLBean Tote.

Things I will be wearing

ASOS Salon dress.
I was going to show you this on the next post but I got too excited.
My magical Portobello blanket coat. More on this next time.
Topshop. Too good.

*Handy Glossary

Helfie: a selfie of hair
Belfie: a selfie of the derriere
Welfie: a work out selfie 
Drelfie: a drunken selfie
Shelfie: a selfie of your bookshelf


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